If you are asking yourself, is he going to propose, why is he not contributing to the household or paying half, why isn’t he helpful around the house or with the kids, etc, than you need to rethink your relationship. Continue reading “Are You Setting Standards and Requirements For Your Man ?”
I can't count how many times my friends have complained about their
partner coming home later than normal, or expected, or not coming home
at all. This seems to be a common problem that all of us deal with but don't
discuss. If only this topic was not so messy.
Continue reading “Curfew Anyone?”
I sit back and listen to other females tell me about how they miss their ex-boyfriend or how they need him back in their life or how they can’t do anything without him. But also, the person they are missing is abusive, a cheater, there’s no respect and the list goes on. Continue reading “but I miss him ……………..”
Have you ever dated someone and thought well, he’s a cheater but I’m different so he will change? Or the thought of well he’s a deadbeat father but he won’t be that way with my children? How many women feel that way or felt that way? How many times has it turned out different? Continue reading “Why Do You Think You Will Be Different !”
I feel like all of my life I have been fighting this stereotype of what a black woman is supposed to be. Is she smart, does she have ten kids, does she own a home, does she rent an apartment, is that her real hair, does she wear weave or is she the angry black woman. Who is the black woman? Continue reading “The Misconception of the Black Women”
Growing up the idea of dating a man with kids was frowned upon. As I came into my own I wanted to have my own family , and date a man who had no previous attachment. Well at 31 the chances of that are becoming far and few in between unless your into 20 year old men lol.
Continue reading “Dating a Man With Kids”
Why is it that many of us have this long arduous checklist. I cannot count how many times I have come across females who are single with a checklist of things a man needs to have. My question back is always what do you bring to the table? Continue reading “Ditch the Checklist”
I asked my boyfriend this and of course he shrugs his shoulders. I asked my friend this ( another man ) and he says yes.
Well I have the answer , my opinion of course. I am sure there are a lot of woman out there who are in sexless relationships or too much sex in the relationship, or maybe a cheating husband or your cheating. Continue reading “Masterbation”
When I think of scared of lonely I hear Beyoncé in my head singing ( scared of lonely ) from I Am …..Sasha Fierce Album.
Many times I have come across friends who must have a man. I am sure y’all know a few lol. So why is it we are afraid to be lonely? Continue reading “Scared of Lonely”
I cannot begin to tell you how many times someone has asked me and my significant other when are you getting married. This has become the most annoying question of my relationship. Continue reading “When Are You Getting Married”