I cannot begin to tell you how many times someone has asked me and my significant other when are you getting married. This has become the most annoying question of my relationship. Continue reading “When Are You Getting Married”
When I was younger and heard this I would be like sign me up.When I here this question now and it’s deeper than what it is.
So let me first say to all my fellow woman , all men have potential , potential to get a job , potential to move out from their mother , potential to leave they wife , potential to get a better job , and potential potential potential. The real question is what are you doing with your potential. Continue reading “Should You Date a Man With Potential”
Every year me and my friends take an annual girls trip. We began to realize life is too short to not travel and see the world. Couldn’t but I think wouldn’t this be nice to jet set and jet set with your girls. Continue reading “Can’t a afford a girls trip”
So I purchased my home almost a year ago , 3 beds and 2/1/2 baths. I have no kids it’s just me and it’s EMPTY .
Continue reading “My Empty House”
I recently had the opportunity to go to a book signing for Jen Sincero. What an eye opener. It all started with reading ‘You are a Bad ass how to stop doubting you greatness and start living an awesome life”. This book is amazing. After reading this book I have began and still am on a journey of daily affirmations , encouragement and self confidence. Continue reading “You are a BAD ASS !”
There’s nothing like dealing with a cheating man and the side chick. A few years ago I had to experienced a situation where my man(now ex man) was cheating. It’s always said that as a female you have an intuition. Well I had an intuition. Continue reading “Why are we always mad at the side chick”
Pedicures is usually a time for you and your girls to kick back ,relax and chill. Never did I think I would look forward to pedicures with my man.
Now don’t get me wrong my man was not like oh sign me up , it took some convincing. The first time we went was a few years ago and I had to beg him to come and just try it once. Continue reading “Pedicures with my man”
In the black community so many people view therapy as a sign of weakness . A few years ago I was really struggling with life and felt like I had no outlet. I always saw people on tv seek therapy usually white, but very seldom were they like me.
I started to go to therapy at a time when my personal relationship was in a bad place and I was lost. Here it was I was about to graduate college with my four year degree , I had planned so much for my life but felt like I was loosing my mind. At that time in my life what I was looking for the strength to be strong and also guidance.
When I first moved out of state the only people I knew was my immediate family . I was in an on and off again relationship and at this time we were off. So single and ready to mingle here we come. I noted at my job there were a few guys but one in particular who caught my attention. His name was john he was tall , no kids ,educated , ambitious except he lived with his girlfriend.