Should You Date a Man With Potential

When I was younger and heard this I would be like sign me up.When I here this question now and it’s deeper than what it is.

So let me first say to all my fellow woman , all men have potential , potential to get a job , potential to move out from their mother , potential to leave they wife , potential to get a better job , and potential potential potential. The real question is what are you doing with your potential. Continue reading “Should You Date a Man With Potential”

You are a BAD ASS !

I recently had the opportunity to go to a book signing for Jen Sincero. What an eye opener. It all started with reading ‘You are a Bad ass how to stop doubting you greatness and start living an awesome life”. This book is amazing. After reading this book I have began and still am on a journey of daily affirmations , encouragement and self confidence. Continue reading “You are a BAD ASS !”

What I discovered after going to therapy

In the black community so many people view therapy as a sign of weakness . A few years ago I was really struggling with life and felt like I  had no outlet. I always saw people on tv seek therapy usually white,  but very seldom were they like me. 

I started to go to therapy at a time when my personal relationship was in a bad place and I was lost. Here it was I was about to graduate college with my four year degree , I had planned so much for my life but felt like I was loosing my mind. At that time in my life what I was looking for the strength to be strong and also guidance.

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Dating in the workplace and why I will not do it again

When I first moved out of state the only people I knew was my immediate family . I was in an on and off again relationship and at this time we were off. So single and ready to mingle here we come. I noted at my job there were a few guys but one in particular who caught my attention. His name was john he was tall , no kids ,educated , ambitious except he lived with his girlfriend.

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