When I first moved out of state the only people I knew was my immediate family . I was in an on and off again relationship and at this time we were off. So single and ready to mingle here we come. I noted at my job there were a few guys but one in particular who caught my attention. His name was john he was tall , no kids ,educated , ambitious except he lived with his girlfriend.
We were introduced to each and it was evident we would make a perfect couple per our coworkers. I told myself I am no ones side chick ,we can be friends and I am no home wrecker , he’s the home wrecker.
After months of talking , exchanging stories, hanging out here and there , I had decided to start online dating. As my friend he was right there coaching and cheering me through. In this process we became closer , so much so that I invited him over after a bad date. We talked like we always do but then he reached over for a kiss and to my surprise I accepted and kissed back. In that moment it felt magical and I had no idea I even had feelings for him.
So as the weeks progressed we continued our little secret. I was falling for this guy and had to decided either your just going to fuck him and keep it moving or stop this nonsense because it’s wrong , he has a girlfriend.
So I had a brief lapse of judgment and decided you will never be in a relationship with him because he has a girlfriend. It seemed like he wanted a relationship with me but what difference would it make if he weren’t single. Not to mention do I want a boyfriend that is a cheater. So I decided I’m just going to fuck him and keep it moving.
I invited him over one late night , I showered , threw on my most sexiest lingerie and heels and when he knocked on the door I was there half naked to answer it. He was smiling , surprised and hard. He immediately grabbed me kissed me, I sat down as he undid his pants and to my delight he was HUGE. Without a second thought foreplay began and then he stopped and said he couldn’t. So he sat down boxers on , I got on top of him , cum everywhere , we dry humped kissed and he left.
I was confused , what did I do wrong , I thought he was ready to fuck me. He made that clear every time we spoke , every time he came over. In the past he had no problem having sex with these other females and messing around so why was this so different , isn’t this what he wanted ? I had chosen to be a home wrecker and it just did not work the way wanted lol.
Well after that incident it seemed things went downhill. We talked less , we weren’t taking breaks together any more , he was now taking breaks with another girl and basically ignoring me. I was so confused because I never pursued him and when I finally made up my mind to be a active participant in his games because (girls can do that too) it was like he didn’t want to be bothered any more.
Well needless to say a year later due to some reorganizing in the company we were required to work together more often. Well I’m a professional and can put on a great face. He attempted to be my friend and at that point I decided I’m at work and hi and bye is sufficient but nothing more. A part of me wanted to confront him about it but you know what who cares , I moved on and it seemed so did he.
I guess it’s safe to say that my experience with dating in the workplace did not turn out so well. I don’t know if I would do it again , however that fling was fun and entertaining while it lasted and while the outcome was confusing hey that’s life right.